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At My Parents’ Place

written by John Chow on January 21st, 2007

I am at my parents’ place today because I’m trying to get Sally to get used to staying with them. When we went for Dine Out Vancouver at Le Gavroche last Friday, we left Sally with my parents and she cried the entire time we were gone.

Sally has seen my parents many times but I guess not enough to be really comfortable with them. Therefore, we have decided to spend at least one day a week at my parents’ and have my parents come to my house at least once a week.

The reason I need to do this is because I’m planning a one month long Asia trip in June that will take Sarah and I to Taiwan, China and Japan. I need someone to take care of Sally while we’re away and my parents are the obvious choice. This mean getting my parents’ faces in front sally as much as possible. It also means getting her used to a new house and environment.

I hope that by the time June rolls around, Sally will be able to stay with my parents without wondering where her parents are. I may get a life size cutout of myself and set it up in the living room. However, I’m sure after a few days, Sally will wonder how come daddy hasn’t moved.

Qwerty_ said on January 21st, 2007 at 5:18 pm

I Sally your Dog or Cat or some other pet? Or am I way off the mark?

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Richard said on January 21st, 2007 at 5:19 pm

“I am at my parents’ place today because I’m trying to get Sally uses to staying with my them.”

wtf. The first sentence has some serious grammar errors. Seriously, you should take a few moments to re-read your posts before hitting that “publish” button. I don’t think anyone is going to scoop this story from you!

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John Chow said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:09 pm

That’s what happen when you try posting with a crying baby next to you. :(

Thanks for pointing it out. I’ve corrected it.

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Michael Kwan said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:27 pm

It’s also “get used to”, not “get uses to”

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Alex Becker said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:46 pm

Wow the grammar sharks are roaming around today

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Kiltak said on January 21st, 2007 at 5:54 pm

My son absolutely adores my parents, but when we first left him there for the 1st time to take a bit of time for us (Me and my wife), he didn’t really approve of our decision. We started seeing my parents more regularly from this point, and things rapidly changed.. Depending on the age of your daughter, things should change quite quickly!

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bryan glanz said on January 21st, 2007 at 5:56 pm

Qwerty- Sally is his newborn child.(sallychow.com)

Richard- Sometimes he messes up with the grammar because english isn’t his first language as he dooley notes in a prior entry. Most of the time his info is not only noteworthy but typed pretty damn well. Maybe you should try writing a blog in second language. I’ll let you do one in any language ; you choose.

John- You kick ass. Richard well he sucks Richard(the short form)

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Alex Becker said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:49 pm

Can’t believe someone though it was a pet.

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Richard said on January 21st, 2007 at 10:50 pm

Wow bryan, take a breath and count to ten… Oh and I have some news you should probably sit down for: You have a grammar error in your comment.

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Alex Becker said on January 22nd, 2007 at 11:59 am

OMG a grammar error. Call the grammar police ASAP.

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Judith in Umbria said on January 22nd, 2007 at 1:27 am

I too sometimes blog in a second language. Polite corrections of the use of the language are like graduate school for me. Rude comments just go past my head. I hope John feels the same.

If you don’t try, you never improve. If you get embarrassed at errors, you won’t take chances and you will sound like a third grader forever.

If John wants polite corrections, then any of us who write and edit could be helpful. Otherwise it’s best to shut up or ask for clarification if it is something one really wants to know.

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Alexei said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:11 pm

aw… she’s so cute! And a smart one too if she’s already blogging. ;)

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Ryan said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:12 pm

The obvious solution is a John Chow wax figure. She’ll never know the difference.

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John Chow said on January 21st, 2007 at 11:46 pm

At $300K, it’s one expensive cut out!

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Ronnie said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:29 pm

Enjoy your trip John. Is this work related or just for travel? In two weeks I’m also going to Japan and also to Cambodia.

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John Chow said on January 21st, 2007 at 11:47 pm

It’s both. The first week will be TTZ related. After that, we’re just going to do some traveling.

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James said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:39 pm

Ah John. Who cares? Really… you’ve been posting a lot of pointless crap lately.

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Nick Witkoski said on January 21st, 2007 at 8:00 pm

john’s blog, john’s rules, if you dont like it…dont read it…

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Alex Becker said on January 21st, 2007 at 6:48 pm

Your on the right track there John. But I can’t help but wonder whats gonna happen to this blog while your gone? Are you planing to post while on the road? Guest writer? or just be evil and stop posting without notice?

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John Chow said on January 21st, 2007 at 11:48 pm

I will continue to update, just like I kept updating while I was in Vegas. I may get a guest blogger to help out too.

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Raghu said on January 22nd, 2007 at 7:47 am

The idea of a guest blogger looks neat - How do you propose to choose that person - your contacts or a contest :)

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Jane said on January 22nd, 2007 at 3:56 pm

Hahaha, contest idea is kinda funny! I can’t imagine he would entrust his credibility with a contest. But I would be interested to hear who may step in and if it would affect the # of visitors in any way.

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Qwerty_ said on January 21st, 2007 at 7:07 pm

Oh woops sorry John I did not realise that Sally was your new born child I am very sorry for this mistake. only a new reader to your blog you see.

Very sorry indeed.

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John Chow said on January 21st, 2007 at 11:49 pm

Don’t worry about it. Anyone could have made that mistake. Think nothing of it.

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Nick Witkoski said on January 21st, 2007 at 7:59 pm

I think its a good idea john. Also, i wish i could go on a month long vacation, even if it is work related.

ps. can i be your editor :D im online all the time you could send me a copy of your post and i can proof read it.

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siong1987 said on January 21st, 2007 at 8:09 pm

Try to visit Bangkok, Malaysia, Singapore too. These countries are attractive too.

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Wow its me said on January 21st, 2007 at 8:10 pm

Ahh she will do fine, But wow thats a long time to be away from a newborn

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Jane said on January 22nd, 2007 at 3:59 pm

Yeah, I don’t know if I’d be able to do that if I had a child…my attachment for my little puppy is probably an indicator :)

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crunchy carpets said on January 21st, 2007 at 8:37 pm

A month!
Wow….We can barely get a night out! And my kids love My mom.

I think you will need to prep a bit more than that…how about some over nights with you or your wife at the grandparents place…..so she can get used to waking up with them.

Then an overnight WITHOUT you guys!

Yipes!

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Indi Scoop said on January 21st, 2007 at 9:53 pm

cut out? lol…

and good idea at the same time

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Leftblank said on January 22nd, 2007 at 12:29 am

No pictures of the food John, such a shame ;)

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Raghu said on January 22nd, 2007 at 7:49 am

Am sure Sally would get used to your parents - you might have a problem to take her back home after your vacation !

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Chris said on January 22nd, 2007 at 12:22 pm

“However, I’m sure after a few days, Sally will wonder how come daddy hasn’t moved.”

Simple John, just put the cut-out in front of the PC and she’ll never notice ;-)

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Paul said on January 22nd, 2007 at 12:28 pm

I’ve just been through the same process with my little 15 month year old. Things get so much easier when they’re comfortable with the grandparents! Good luck…

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Alex Becker said on January 22nd, 2007 at 4:12 pm

yea kids, I don’t think I will ever be ready for them.

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