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How A Dream Killed My Blog and How I Revived It With a Goal

written by Guest Blogger on July 8, 2010

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550 days ago I had a dream. I dreamed that I was going to make a lot of money online. How I caught it, found it, or came by it I do not remember – and it does not matter. I got it and I was going to do something about it.

The dream turned into obsession. Every mouse click and keystroke was aimed towards the dream. Hours turned to days which turned to months in pursuit of this dream.

A blog was created. Posts were written, ads were up. All the usual forms of attracting traffic were employed. Joining forums, writing articles, socializing with other bloggers.

Everything was in place. Everything that was suppose to be done to make my dream come true was done.

430 days ago my dream shattered. I do not why it came on that particular day. It just did. On that day the dream died. Not without reason of course, for the last couple weeks I was averaging 20 visitors a day and earning an equal amount of pennies.

I quit. Like a cheated lover, I never wanted to see my blog again.

For the next few weeks I stewed. How could this happen? All those hours spent on the stupid thing. All those hours spent thinking about it, devoting all my mental energy on it. Even the dog suffered – walks in the park were shorter. All for what? 20 visitors and less money then what I find every month in-between the couch cushions.

I cursed the dream and its siren song.

The problem with dreams is that they spawn out of every place except reality. They create a pretty picture, but do not show you how to paint it yourself in the real world. Make a lot of money online is a great dream. But how to make a lot of money online – the dream will not tell you.

Dreams are Vague, Goals Are Specific and Measurable

Dreams are good for poets to ponder and psychologists to probe. But for bloggers they only lead to disappointment. I don’t need a dream – I need a goal.

A goal is something you can touch. A goal has a beginning, a middle, and a end. A goal has a means. Dreams only have an end. With dreams you only see the end but you do not see the path towards it. With dreams there is no way to tell how close you are to achieving it. 120 days after the dream materialized I had made no progress towards turning it to reality. That is why the dream died.

Goals have a end and more importantly a middle. With goals you can see how close you are to achieving it. You see progress.

An example. I abandoned my dream of making a lot of money online. Too fuzzy and vague. Instead I made a goal. My goal: be on position 1 on Google search results for ‘make money website’. Sounds like a crazy dream but it is not.

Unlike a dream, with this goal I know exactly where the end is – position one. I know exactly where I am now – position 702. I can check my progress – do a search for ‘make money website’ and see where I am. I know what I need to do to reach my goal – optimize my blog for ‘make money website’ and get quality backlinks. The more optimized the blog and the more backlinks the higher up I go. Maybe in a couple months I will be in position 650 – progress.

Specific Goals Allow You To See Progress

The advantage with this goal is that I can see progress. With a dream like make lots of money online there was no perceivable progress – and that was really discouraging.

By having a goal that allows you to see the progress you are less likely to be discouraged. You are less likely to quit and have your blog die.

Some more examples of measurable goals:

  1. Get 1000 RSS subscribers
  2. Get 1000 visitors a day
  3. Get 1000 Twitter followers
  4. Be in position 1 for specific keywords

As you can see these goals are very different then having dreams like have a successful blog or make lots of money online. With these goals progress can been seen every time a there is a new subscriber or a twitter follower.

I have forgotten my dream. Now I focus on goals that allow me to measure their progress. So long as I keep moving closer and closer towards my goal I am happy and my blog will not die.

Roman runs a blog call How This Blog Makes Money. It shows how this blog makes money.

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Setting goals in a wnderful way of keeping yourself focussed. Specially for a new blogger who has to slog it out right from day one.

This is a great post, its very true, if you don't have goals you can never see progress. Unlike a dream which is just 2 options you accomplished it or you didn't, you can see progress and see improvements which will keep you motivated to achieving your goal, which will eventually turn to your dream.

Goals are what make the dreams possible. Great blog.

The most important thing is that you didn't give up. Only the strongest, smartest and most persistent survive this intense competition on the internet.

For the term "make money website" there are many big players in your way.

Do you think that this will be an easy path ?

I am in it for the long haul and I want to play with the big fishes. If I win, I want to win big.

You need both, a dream, better called an thought of as a vision and goals that can be measured.

The vision will set the path, the goals make sure you reach the destination.

I am sooooooooo glad I came across this post!

I am about to start my 2nd site ( and a 3rd with two other partners). My first site was a dismal failure!

I posted a LOT of posts...got decent feedback...but didn't make enough money for bus fare!

Like you, I didn't want to be bothered with it again. SO I was sooooooo able to relate to what you wrote and am able to incorporate what you said.

Thanks for being so honest!

hey roman,
thank you for sharing such motivating post here. well eventually i can somehow relate my previous intention with what seems like yours.
yes, i had a vague 'dream' of just making money online.. it drove me hard on getting things laid and prepared but it didn't persuaded me to 'continue' striving .. because i didn't get to see 'results'.
however, i figured out eventually that it was my 'mind' thats playing tricks on me. so i shoved those negative unrealistic 'dream' of just purely making money online and turn it into a much more step-by-step approach of doing so.
as what you have mentioned, i listed down a much more 'down to earth' goals..
guess what, i am doing better and am proud to say that i am really making progress.
having a right mind set and setting a realistic goal is essentially important. why ? because it enables you to really stay specific thus better concentration can be pronouncedly perform within its context.
keep up the good work man.
cheers =)

Thanks for sharing and for guest blogging here Roman. That was really a nice post. I agree with you on this one. Having measurable goals will lead you to success, just don't quit and keep on moving forward.

There's really no such thing as failure, only quitter. You will not fail if you don't give up.

Kind regards,

Gary

Useful subject. I think that I have been dreaming as well for a while.

I will try now to decide some goals and measure my progress.

Thank you and best regards

Mario Pesce

Really nice article, Roman. I appreciated your honesty and enjoyed a look around your site as well. I wish you the best as you pursue your goals.

Johnchow ,I love you,I love your article :).
If some body have free time,pls visit my New Blog :)

Hey Guys
We're doing it again. This post was not written by John. Thanks Roman for the timely reminder. I am off to set some goals for my new blog.....

I love this quote.
"I cursed the dream and its siren song."
But I definitely agree with all your points. You can only measure success through achievable goals. By putting numbers on those goals, you can create percentages, pie graphs, and charts to your heart's content so you can see exactly how well you're doing.

A great post for all the people out there starting up blogs! (and for the many, many, many who have had one for awhile, yet it's not seeing the growth they wanted/expected)

Roman - we've had this conversation before. Your blog didn't die because you didn't set an objective. It was much simpler than that. it died because you didn't work hard at it.

All that stuff about obsession and hours turning into days is rubbish. You were working less than an hour a day on the blog, and for some weeks you weren't working on it at all.

You've done seven posts this year - that's one a month. There is no way you can rank number one for anything worthwhile with a work rate like that.

Sorry to be so harsh with you in public, but I don't want the JC readers to fall into the same trap. If you really want to make money at this game, you need to start with the realisation that you have to put time into it.

Hello Mike,

A flashback: Grade 4, Mr. Marshall keeps me after school and tells me that if I want to pass the year I need to put more time into my assignments.

Solid advice. In grade 4 this advice works because all it takes is for the teacher to see that you are spending your time on assignments and you pass. But I do not think spending more time is the solution for blogs.

As you can see on my blog I have worked 566 hours. In that time I have made 605 dollars. That is just a little over 1 dollar an hour. Let’s say that I followed your advice and simply put it more hours. Let’s say that I worked twice as hard. Instead of putting in 1 hour a day, I put in 2. Instead of just working 1 hour after work, I also woke up an hour earlier and worked an hour every morning. Besides less sleep and crusties in my eyes, what would I get for all that extra effort? Most likely I would now have 1200 dollars (twice the hours twice the money). More money, but still just 1 dollar an hour.

The problem is not how many hours you work. It is what you do with those hours. To simply work more hours is not the solution.

For example, imagine you had move dirt from on location to another. Because you lack experience in dirt moving, you use your hands to move the dirt. It is very inefficient and slow so you ask for advice. Poor advice would be to suggest that you work more hours. Good advice would be that you use a shovel.

Same thing applies for blogs. It how you use your hours, not how many hours you spend. Simply spending countless hours to spew an endless amount of mediocre posts is not better then spending 2 hours on a very clever marketing scheme. One guy with a shovel can do in 1 hour what it takes 5 guys to do with their hands in 5 hours.

What I have seen, is that the blogs that succeed are not necessarily the ones in which the blogger put it the most hours. The successful blogger is able to do something clever, something different. The successful blogger is able to leverage their brains and the tools available in the most effective way.

True, moving dirt with your hands will move dirt but I am looking for a shovel.

Look like a post.But what you have said is absolutely right.

I am extremely inspired, motivated and encouraged from this post. I did a post entry about your blog, I hope you don't mind if I took a screenshot of your blog. :) Anyways, I myself am working towards that "goal" now, even if it takes me cents per step to do it. :) well, LITERALLY! Thanks John Chow!

Very inspiring story. Gave me a lot to think about. I'm glad for you

great point about setting goals instead of dreaming. love it john.

Wow, people need to pay attention to who the author of the article is. I guess that's the downside when you have the blog under your name.

Either way, John was responsible for putting it on his blog and therefore is responsible for you viewing this article. Don't be so harsh man.

Well, how do you think the author feels about not being praised but instead it look like John gets all the glory for something he didn't write.
I don't mean to be harsh. I'm just saying, give credit where credit is due.

I'm with d3so on this, at least when it comes to people who frequent this blog regularly.

The author of the post should be given a credit. Otherwise it looks like the people who read it are only interested in praising John.

John is a great guy and I don't want to take anything from him. But those who praise him when in fact he's not the author show disrespect of him as well.

It's entirely understandable for someone who visits this blog for the first ime or the first few times that he or she will give all the credit to John.

But come on you regulars, can't you tell when John is the author? If you can't you aren't reading the posts but just give a lip service.

Vance

It happens quite often when people don't read the author of the post.

goal setting is important.. or else you will be flying blank

Another great article from you john.I love it

You have to start small with your goals and then build up to larger goals

I love it! Best post I have read in a while! Very true advice.

This kind of post is why I keep the RSS feed for John Chow in perfect sight.

I have set very long term goals and obtainable daily goals that force me to stay busy online.

When I look back to two years ago when I was making about twenty cents a day to where I am today, I am inspired to keep building.

This Internet stuff works, but it takes a lot of work. Here's the thing though, the reward is passive income!

Once everything is set on auto pilot, I'm going to the beach!

Sounds like a great plan to me! Who doesn't love the beach?

yes having specific goals allows you to focus your efforts on accomplishing them

How do you check where your site ranks for keywords?
Surely you don't check page by page on google :P

Same question.John how you check your site ranks for keywords.

So, I'm guessing everyone knows but no one cares to share? ;)

That is exactly the way I do it. Sometimes the only way is the hard way.

To find my keywords (make money website) I set my Google preferences to 100 results per page. Then I searched for ‘make money website’. Going page by page and searching each page for ‘howthiswebsitemakesmoney’ I found it on page 7, second entry down, which means my position was 702.

Now that I know where it is, I simply go to page 6 or 7 and find my website. It fluxuates everyday, so far the best it has done is 690. Long way to position 1 but making progress.

There's a much easier way. Download SEO for Firefox and the SEO Book Toolbar. The toolbar has a little icon towards the right end called Search Engine Rank Checker. You can put your keyword in and target a specific site. It takes approximately a minute versus blindly searching google search results.

Don't rely on google especially if you're 700 for a keyword.
Once you become big, google won't be able to ban you due to bad user experience. Same thing happened to John.

One of the first things I did when I started my blog was to read the Google Webmaster guidelines. Under the quality section it states : “Don't use unauthorized computer programs to submit pages, check rankings, etc. Such programs consume computing resources and violate our Terms of Service.“

If Google tells me not to do something then I do not do it. The worst thing that can happen is for me to voilate the terms of service and be removed from the search index. That would be the true death of the blog – banishment. Without Google my blog is nothing.

So, I do things the hard way – manually find my position and check its progress every couple of weeks.

Google search "rank checker" and the first result is a piece of software that works like a charm. It is a firefox plugin.

I use http://www.marketsamurai.com/c/hospitalera to check my rankings in the SERPentines, and much, much more like keyword value, back link sources etc. They have a free 12 days trial (no credit card required, only email address) if you want to test it. I normally set up a project for each website I have and which keywords I want to target / monitor. One click, a few minutes (depends on size of project) and I can see with one look how my sites / articles etc rank for different keywords in Google, Yahoo and Bing. Full review here: http://hospitalera.com/market-samurai-tips-keeping... SY

Market Samurai is also a great tool... I use it everyday.

Thanks for recommending which tools to use.
I appreciate it very much! :)

You are welcome! BTW, the keyword research feature stays available, even after the free trial has expired, SY

Thanks again for the heads up!

John,

A really profound and thought provoking post. Dreams are useless, and I say that as a bit of a dreamer. SMART = specific, measurable, attainable, timely and realistic - all of our goals should follow this simple formula (though I'm not sure about the realistic part).

Nonetheless, I don't think you should disregard the dream entirely. Only by dreaming do we find the motivation to achieve, only by dreaming do we aspire to achieve more. It's a matter of striking the right balance.

The information you have provided here has been sighted again and again, albeit from a slightly different angle. Nonetheless, this article contains points that we all need to heed, learn from and act on.

Excellent post.

Excellent Post John. I think it would help more if we write our goals in pencil and read it once we wake up and before we go to sleep.