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How To Make a Girl Fall In Love with You

written by Guest Blogger on September 4, 2009

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How to make a girl fall in love with you, all your answers here!

How to make a girl fall in love with you is one of the most important questions you can answer. And which girl am I talking about? Well, Google of course. Some simple tips as to how to make a girl fall in love with your blog, the Google girl ;) Some simple SEO tips.

What Kind of Girl Are You After?

Decide who your audience are, what they will want to read about, what key terms they will search to find that reading material and then optimise your blog for those terms and blog about it.

Chose a Cool Name or Use Your Own Name

Ideally buy a URL with the keyword in it that you want the blog to rank for, or your name. Google looks at the works that link to your blog, and you rank for those works. People inevitably link to your blog by its domain name, and if that is one of the words that you want to rank for, then you will rank for that more easily. Google also places a lot of emphasis on domain names. If you are building a personal brand then buy a domain name with your name in it.

Title Your Blog

In the HTML code of your blog there is what is called a title tag. This is the Title tag on Murray Newlands.com “Affiliate Marketing Blog & Social Media Marketing Blog”. This should be the key term that you want your blog to rank for. I want my blog to rank for affiliate marketing blog, affiliate marketing affiliate blog, social media marketing and social media marketing blog. My choice of Title tag helps my site to rank for those terms.

Blog Posts: a love letter to her

  1. Blog about what you want to be found for!
  2. Think of title for your posts and then use Google external tool to see how much traffic is available on the terms you are looking for.
  3. Do a search on Google for title:”key term from Google external” to see what the competition on that term is. If you are optimising a post for a key term you will put the term in the title: therefore the more people with the key term in the title the more competitive it is. and the harder it is to rank for that term.
  4. Use the key term in the first paragraph of the post.
  5. Use the key term several times in the post.
  6. Use the key term at the end of the post.

Link Love for to get the Girls to like you.

  1. Google makes sites rank for the words that people use as terms to link to that site from. Link to my site using the words “Affiliate blog” and I will start to rank for that term. Link to me for the term Obama and I will start to rank for the word Obama.
  2. Link to other blogs from your posts and they are more likely to do the same back.
  3. If you are going to link to my blog please write about me as said Murraynewlands.com Affiliate blog and link on the term affiliate blog, or celebrity blogger, or affiliate marketing. Why? Because I am currently trying to rank for those terms. Not sure how I want you to link to me? A – ask me, B- look at the key terms in my title bar.
  4. Know what terms you want to rank for and ask people to link to you from those words.
  5. If you want to rank for a term that is not in your title description do a blog post about that term and then ask people to link to your site using that word to that post.

    I.E., please link to me using the words “Celebrity blogger” to the post to this post http://www.murraynewlands.com/index.php/2009/07/celebrity-blogger-celebrity-blogger-murray-newlands/

    Link to this post on the term “how to make a girl fall in love with you”

Get a Wingman

  1. Teach this to your friends, all of them.
  2. They will rank better.
  3. They will get better links.
  4. They will get more traffic.
  5. When they link to you it will help your site more.

Create a Speed Dating Event and Make It a Love In

The more sites you link with and teach better seo and the more they link to you the better your seo will be and the more your blog will grow.

For this post I chose a fun title “how to make a girl fall in love with you”. It is off topic for my blog but “how to make a girl fall in love with you” is a search phrase with lots of traffic and comparatively few intitle competitors.

This was a guest post from MurrayNewlands.com Affiliate Blog (he’s the guy on the right).

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Nice! I think I was sitting next to John and Murray when they were taping this :)

Good short summary of link building and SEO techniques. Thank you

Like rest o them, I found the analogy cool, interesting & really tempting. It would have got a lot more readers. But were they relevant & useful?

Just reading through all this comments, seems your blog audience is 95% male ;-) Any tips how a girl makes the Google boy fall in love with her? Would flattery help? SY

The only thing I dont get is why do you want the traffic of people looking for girlfriends? :-D Are you targeting highschool kids now who are single and male? Where is follow me on myspace button? :)

Cool stuff, very interesting.

I'm already dreaming about the leggy blonde ... But Google is also nice girl, thanks for this post. :-)

You should not try to make a girl fall in love with you. You are just trying to seduce the girl. If you and the girl fall in love it should be a mutual feeling both of you have after spending time together. I do not object to seduction, just call it what it is. Now if I could just seduce google to make my site number one I could die happy, and rich...

Thanks for the tips. You don't want to get it ALMOST right for google. It's got to be EXACTLY right or it won't work. I think mine was ALMOST right before. Now that I know better, I can make a few tweaks and (hopefully) rank better. It's not that hard, is it, once you know. Sure is a lot to learn though.

Meh, Google doesn't really bother me. It only drives around 5% of my traffic. I get most of my hits from word of mouth, which is a safer long term game to be playing.

Well Google as we consider is the safest bet. I just cannot understand someone completely disregarding and ignoring Google. Wah Macho.. Never had the guts to kick the google like U just did. Great....

You are very fortunate to be in that position, Finch! Here in South Africa Google absolutely dominates the search engines, and ignoring them will be hugely detrimental to one's search marketing efforts.

@ Finch ... when you will get the traffic from Google than you will realise how it is important to have traffic from search engines.

Because traffic from search engine have high conversion rates and thats come in bunch ... like bees.

So far you are not getting hence I think you did not realise this.

I'd be interested to hear how you pull that off.

Love the analogy dude! The first question "What Kind of Girl Are You After?" was not congruent a bit though, because as I understood, Google is the "girl".

Anyhow, love it! :-)

Google is a girl and we must do everything to appeal her. She is a pretty girl and world is going gaga behind her. We all webmasters simply love google. There are some simple tricks explained in this post and I am really happy to have read this post

Well, overall I like the idea content is the king.
You have good content like you have a attraction :)

nice, I hope girls wo't see this :). Or your strategies won't work.

What do you mean by that ... ??

Awesome title to experiment with. I can see that this internet marketing experiment is going to cause some headlines. Good one, Mr Chow!

I love this article. Your such a great writer John Chow. I thought it was cute. And very informative and helpful. Thank you!!

Oh I've been cheat with the title. I though it is really tips to get a girl..

wow... really nice article ... two days got more than 70 comments

I also like to focus on her tail, well that is writing post focused on her long tail (keywords) especially when your blog is new!!! ;-)

totally was not what i was expecting...but useful nonetheless.

WHAT?! Really?! I already expect it to be a SEO tips since the beginning.

Hehe, I'm joking ^-^.

And I came here thinking that I'll get some tips about girls! I'm disappointed :D

But nice catchy title heh heh

I didn't think about looking for how well ranked the title for a blog post would be. Very interesting idea. But that is the thing about being a blogger, you're always learning and always adapting tactics and techniques. Thanks for a great and informative post!

If you already knew everything, it wouldn't be interesting, right? It's great when you are able to learn new things everydays.

That's true. I have only recently learned the importance of the text of a hyperlink linking to your site. It's true, you do learn new things every day!

John:

How would you go about ranking for a certain keyword without actually having that keyword in your domain name? For example, you're building a brand name "Nick Aviles", but you also want to rank for some "make money online" keywords, even though none of those words are actually included in the domain. Thanks.

Nick

Quality and relevant link building will help. Plus your contents should also giving such information on regular basis.

Just try it with medium competition keywords and I am sure you will be able to see higher ranking every time you post relevant to that.

I am using my own name for the domain name, but I'm branding a making money online site... it doesn't stop me from being featured on google search engine using some keyword for SEO.

Yep, targeted anchor text links, and lots of em will do the trick.

While having your desired keywords in your URL is a great help, you can get away with quality links (from relevant authority sites / pages) with keyword rich anchor text.

I love the example that this post creates. It's such a well-written example of how to make a girl fall in love with you online, but at the same time makes a great point about internet marketing.

Yes this one is really catchy and all male blogger will understand this quite smoothly ... lollzz :)

How to make girl fall in love with and make money online. :-)

You will be rewarded with two prizes at a time ... in one hand money and in other hand girl or girls ... lollzz :)

That's the way Dot com mogul make their life happier...

So is your blog about dating girls or SEO? Wouldn't having a title about a subject completely unrelated to SEO hurt your ranking for your actual topic?

What good is it to get someone looking for dating tips on your SEO site? If I'm looking for dating tips I'm just going to be annoyed that you used such a misleading title to draw me in since there wasn't even a hint that the post has nothing to do with actual dating.

The idea of relating SEO to dating is amusing and done relatively well in the body of your post. The content for SEO is actually pretty good too, especially for readers who knows nothing about SEO. I understand titles are also about hooking people in; I think misleading people will lose readers faster than it will build traffic.

Blake

This is simply for the readers of JohnChow dot com not for the search engines ... remember what big G says ... create websites for visitors not for search engines ...

So here thumb rule applied ... :)

Got me there ;-)

Despite the fact John Chow's blog was banned from search engine before, the traffic was still comming. John Chow write posts for his visitors, not search engines...

Well as bloggers we cannot create blogs solely for search engines. John has a loyal traffic and they would love to read this post. You are confusing the SEO here. If the post is wonderful and great to read that is it.

I didn't know Google is a girl.

Seeing google as a girl(friend) could change a lot of things...

Yes provided Google also fall in love with you ... only one sided love will take you no where ... Google also loves your blogs ...

What do you say :)

Google especially loves your content....we should write more poetry for google..