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Successful Blogging – 5 Tips for Writing With Confidence

written by John Chow on January 20, 2008

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This post was guest blogged by Steven York of seopher.com.

The world has literally millions of bloggers competing against one another (Technorati alone claims to track 112.8 million of them). So how can you automatically give value to your writing? Easy, just write with confidence. Most people assume writing with confidence is all about your use of language but that’s not even half the story.

Let me explain this in a way that you’ll certainly have experienced; you’re reading a post about “how to get more traffic” yet the next post is about “I got 1,000 visitors yesterday”. Suddenly the credibility of the information in the first post is sullied by the user’s inherent lack of confidence. A user who is excited about 1,000 users is unlikely to have a lot of traffic – therefore their advice on the topic loses value. Here are my 5 tips on writing with confidence.

#1 – Don’t Ever Talk About Being Dugg/Reddited/Stumbled

Unless you’re being featured in the national press don’t discuss the exposure you’re getting unless it’s topical; otherwise it completely detracts from the message you’re giving. Bad bloggers talk about “I received 2,000 visitors yesterday from Digg”, good bloggers talk about “How to leverage Digg for traffic”. Showing your excitement about bursts of traffic shows your inexperience and stops your information being reputable.

#2 – Don’t Disclose Failure Unless It’s To Make a Point

While failure helps you to be seen as “real” to your anonymous reader it can also make your readers doubt your abilities. This is especially true in the professional blogging field – Shoemoney didn’t become famous by showing you his smallest Google Adsense cheque did he? No, he shows you a massive one and suddenly his advice means something. So unless you’re trying to make a point (e.g. why making money online is hard) don’t discuss your failures.

#3 – Shout About Your Successes

While I don’t recommend disclosing your failures it doesn’t mean you can’t shout your successes. As I stated above, you become reputable by proving that you know what you’re taking about. When Shoemoney posted the picture of him and his biggest Adsense cheque he suddenly gained credibility within the “make money online” field. The best way to introduce your successes naturally is to use them as case studies: if you’re an SEO analayst then you can explain “how I got [x] to #1 on Google for [whatever]“. If you’re talking about how to make money online, then explain “how I made $10,000 this month”. Just make sure your success is worthy of being bragged about – otherwise you’re going to be that inconfident blogger again shouting about his 1,000 visitors from Digg.

#4 – Write with Authority

Ambiguity doesn’t inspire. Professionals don’t offer uncertain advice – they have given it many times before and know exactly what they’re saying. Your blogging needs to become more like this. If you’re explaining “how to get more traffic”, a confident blogger will write specifically how to leverage various sites and mechanisms as if they have done it before. A blogger lacking confidence will offer suggestions explaining that you “might do quite well” if you get Dugg. This leads me onto my next point:

#5 – You Don’t Need To Tell The Truth All The Time

If you’re feeling evil you can use confident language to make it seem as if you’re experienced in a field you are not (while I don’t advocate this). It’s entirely possible for you to write about “how to get Dugg” without ever having experienced it. You can read other blogs and collate this use this information to add authority to your own musings. So if you are lacking confidence on a given topic it pays to research it properly rather than express your inexperience.

There you have it, 5 tips to write more confidently. But don’t just limit them to your blogging, these can be used in any aspect of your life. If you speak (and write) with authority and confidence then people will pay attention. When was the last time you read a blog by a famous writer that lacked confidence? Exactly.

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For what i think that people can choose not to tell everything that is true but sometimes it depends on what is the content if is something important like telling how much money you earn than many people will prefer to know the truth.

Even if you choose not to share things such as traffic stats, people can still check your alexa rank and, while it is not exactly relevant, it's enough to help a person form an opinion as to how much traffic you are currently receiving.

Alan Johnson

Wow! This is my read of the day :) Keep up the good work!

-Mike

thats a good way to linkbait Seopher :twisted:

For what it's worth, I've published an editorial on seopher.com explaining what I was thinking.
http://www.seopher.com/articles/a_few_lessons_in_b...

dude, you didnt follow your own advice and you admitted you were feeling sheepish after that. Also I noticed your comments dont allow people to link their own blog so it isnt as useful as the comments on other blogs.

I agree, blogging is more personal and you should be telling people about your own situation instead of just trumpeting the successes. With lots of blogs, people are looking to read about other people's experience whether it be success or failure. Personal blogs are different from blogs that run by major corporations (they try to keep theirs more commercial and wont talk a lot about failures). If I was interested in reading the blog of a fortune 500 company, I could find that as well.

Steven, I have to especially disagree with "#1 - Don’t Ever Talk About Being Dugg/Reddited/Stumbled" and "#5 - You Don’t Need To Tell The Truth All The Time" here.

You are basically stating that bloggers should not talk about their small successes.

Do all blogs start with tens of thousands of daily unique visits? I didn't think so. Did this blog start that way? Of course not, but that hasn't kept John from sharing his blog income graphs and referring to every one of his achievements, no matter how insignificant they appear compared to the blog's current status.

Blogging is all about sharing your experience, think about it: if you are teaching others how to make money online and don't disclose your own stats or, even more so, lie to your readers, as you suggest in point #5, what do you think the results will be?

Your readers will end up thinking that a website has to be successful right away. They launch their own project and, big surprise, overnight success doesn't come. What do they do based on your suggestions? They think that "this project is a flop, I'm giving up" just because their website isn't successful right away.

Is this the type of mentality you would like your readers to have?

People need to understand that, in order to reach the 10k RSS subscribers mark, you need to have 1k RSS readers first and, in order to do that, you need to cross the 100 RSS readership barrier. You can't just go from 0 to 10k, things simply don't work out this way and it is your job as a blogger to help readers realize that, let them learn from your experience, that's what blogging is all about.

If you are serious about long-term success as a blogger, you need to provide value and not being honest with your readers is a shaky foundation for your business model to begin with.

Let them know what you did right so that they can follow your example. Let them know what you didn't so that they can avoid your mistakes. Share your results.

John Chow has shared his experience every step of the way, so has Darren Rowse and so have most successful bloggers out there, just check a few of their past posts and you will realize that the fact that they have shared every step of their journey has been a major advantage and has helped them become what they are today.

All in all:

As a blogger who teaches others how to make money online, you need to present the facts, not mislead readers.

Fact: all bloggers have started with a domain name, 1 visit, no RSS readers and no newsletter subscribers.

Fact: your website makes no exception.

Fact: success doesn't come overnight, you need to take things one step at a time

As a blogger, the same facts are valid in your case as well, why would you want your readers to think otherwise? Why would you not want to share your success with them? Why would you want to mislead?

Steven, I hope you will take this as constructive criticism and not act according to point #2, where you've advised against telling people that you're wrong. Sometimes, you just have to admit when you've made a mistake, there's nothing wrong with it as long as there is something to learn from that situation.

Best wishes,

Alan Johnson

I find I write more interestinglier if I'm just being myself. :)

Funny you should talk about this today. Because I was thinking about writing about my last article getting dugg. I guess there's some good karma going on here.

What we think about, we bring about.
Speak it into existance.
'nuff said.

This is good. I am learning that even small things add up over time. I am ready for the google update, the predictions for all of my blogs look very promising.

Nice article, great points.

Great response to, was nice to see the other side of things. :smile:

The article is well written and has some really good (valid) points. But what makes me bookmark this post is the comments from the readers that go more indepth in the subject and explain each point from their own experience and opinion.

lol yea. looks like some stuff got a little heated as well.

Exactly, even if the points mentioned in the article are not exactly valid, a reader has a lot to learn from the "comments" section, where quite a productive debate is taking place.

Alan Johnson

Ok this is great i want your post more on blogging. http://www.money-on-blog-easy.blogspot.com

I have to disagree with points 2 and 5 in some respects.

On # 2 - When you disclose your failures it just helps other bloggers relate to you better. Not everybody makes $25K per month like John does, people need to know the road to blogging and affiliate riches can be fraught with deep valleys.

On # 5 - Dude, the blogosphere is filled with posers, we don't need more. I think people want to read genuine information from bloggers or marketers that have gone through the experience. While you don't need to have first hand knowledge of some things, a little experience in the field makes your writing more believable. Take a ride through Entrecard and see how many blogs are named "So And So Expert SEO Advice" and then see that they have no idea what they're taking about.

That's why I call my blog Affiliate Confession, because I'm doing my best to be honest about the journey.

I think my blog is a perfect example of the fact that you don't need any of these points to be successful. I talk about hitting the front page of Digg (which is a hell of a lot more than 2k visitors by the way), I have a semi-regular feature called "Learn from My Mistakes", I try not to toot my own horn at every new milestone, on more than one occasion I state that I'm just trying something out and I'm not sure whether it will work or not, and I always tell the truth.

While I'm certainly not as successful as John Chow, I am happy with where my blog is at. Plus I don't have to worry about being found out as a fraud. I think that's the way to go.

I just got a real job that pays consistently week to week doing exactly what I love.

After reading this article, I feel like sharing some good news of my own of how my blog is ranked No. 1 on Google.com for "John Chow dot Com Entrepreneur".

Surprisingly! I am also ranked No.1 on Google.com for "Sri Lanka Dot Com Entrepreneur".

Fantastic! Guess how many people will find your blog using those keywords...exactly ZERO!

I seriously don't believe that you still think that the world revolved around the USA. There are so many more countries around the world that do so much better that you do; its just that you Americans seem to steal all the people with the best brains and claim as your own to gain recognition and prove to the world that you are so much more superior and more powerful than anyone else... that totally sucks!

Dude, you are a spammer, LEAVE!

The double post was a result of an accidental refresh... FYI there is nothing you anyone else can do to make me leave! So deal with it dude!

Surprisingly! I am also ranked No.1 on Google.com for "Sri Lanka Dot Com Entrepreneur". :mrgreen:

Spam much?

Those are non competitive terms...

Same goes for you buddy! Just because you think you were born in USA doesn't mean you are more superior than anyone else in this world!

Although John Chow is not from Canada or USA.... he seems to have done pretty well for himself... I don't think he got to where he is by forgetting where he came from!!!

What Blogger Confession and I said has NOTHING to do with your race... and yet you make a blog post calling me a racist...

Hmmm... do I need to quote??? Although some of you may be so high up that you forget that at some point in your blogging life, you too were impressed with something as little as mine!!! As for racism, I don't think anyone in USA or Canada ever takes seriously what the rest of the world does however more great it may be... so yeah... I will stick by it! The only thing everyone can really do is... live with it and give other some gratitude for atleast trying...

When trying to lie about your expertise, it's good to remember what Abraham Lincoln said, "You may fool all the people some of the time, you can even fool some of the people all of the time, but you cannot fool all of the people all the time."

How right he was. And if you can't get away with it, why even try in the first place?

Exactly, lying to your readers is the worst "business model" you could possibly have. Lying to them shows lack of respect and, under such circumstances, why on Earth would readers want to follow your blog on a regular basis?

Alan Johnson

Great advices for beginner bloggers. I can't agree with you about that zillions of bloggers are competing each others. Do you see any challenge anywhere? I don't see any blogger in the blogsphere b#tching eachother. I see people blogging, posting articles daily, communicating, sharing advices and donuts but competing against one another! :roll:

Interestingly enough, I agree that in some sense bloggers are competing against each other. We all want readers and unfortunately, those readers have a limited amount of time they'll spend reading blogs each day. If you get them and I don't that seems to be a competition to me.

Conversely, I disagree this is great advice. I think it's a good way to get yourself in trouble, and put yourself behind before you even get started.

yea i found this advice a bit one sided but this posting is a much more complete posting when you read it then read Darren Rowse's rebuttal post.

How is it more complete? This is flat out bad advice and it's presented as THE way to blog. On the other hand, Darren's response was presented as what he believes but allows that there are other ways to do things.

its more complete when you read the comments and see Darren Rowse rebuttal. Because the comments are a part of the posting, (this is a blog), Darren's comments (counter argument) made it more complete.

Oh, got ya. Yeah, I agree having Darren's point of view as a counter point definitely made this an interesting conversation about the issue.

Steven, I respectfully disagree with most of what you're saying. I think that it's a better policy to be completely transparent as a blogger, admitting to both what you know and what you don't know.

Your tactics sound like posturing, which I agree can be a successful approach to use on people who are less inclined to investigate both sides of an issue... however, in our industry, people are too well educated to be bulldozed by fast talking. It's way too easy to check your background in any number of ways to see if social proof backs up your supposed confidence.

I do agree that maybe 9 out of 10 people may be too lazy to conduct such an investigation, but I know bloggers who are aggressive enough to make a name for themselves by "outing" people who posture themselves too strongly. I'd be careful about using tactics like posturing on my own readers...

Lying to your readers is bad if you're trying to make a honest blogger out of yourself. But it's a VERY competitive market and sometimes the truth isn't wrapped with the glamour that attracts readers. People need sensationalist material to remain interested. What would you rather read? "How to attract 50 readers a day" vs. "How to attract 5,000 readers a day"?

If you're going to be "that" kind of blogger you absolutely need to ooze this confidence and stretch the boundaries of truth until you've got unparalled success to inspire your audience with.

Maybe I should rename myself to "Devil's Advocate"

That same argument would mean that it would be ok for newspapers or magazines to print false stories and lies on a regular basis. Before long, they'd end up the national enquirer.

In blogging your reputation is all you have and if you ruin it by lying to your readers, you won't have anything left no matter how much confidence you portray.

Hi Steven - interesting post. So in which situations exactly would you encourage people to lie?

It maybe came out wrong, I'm not advocating "stretching the truth" but John always errs on the side of evil so I included it for this post.

If you're blogging about SEO for example it'd be inexcusable for you to not understand things like Latent Semantic Indexing, but what if you don't actually know it at all? Sometimes avoiding the topic isn't an option so you can stretch the truth a little.

It's a desirable skill in life to be able to "blag" things and to assume the blogging world is different would be naive I think. Still, it's better to be honest (like I am on Seopher.com, look for the posts where I talk about my PPC failures) but to write with confidence you certainly don't want to concede things like that.

Nice post you got there, definitely something worth reading..

I think Steven didn't follow #4 here. I think your authority suffered from this post. The authoritative statements came out wrong and many bloggers will make a lot of mistakes if they follow your advice.

On the other hand, this post is a great way of starting a debate ;)

Good post Steven, I enjoyed reading your point of view. I also enjoyed reading Darren's point of view. Very nice :!: