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The Difficult Part About The Secret a.k.a “The Law of Attraction”

written by Guest Blogger on July 23, 2010

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“All that we are is the result of what we have thought.”
-Buddah

I live a very blessed life. I have abundance, I write about topics I’m passionate about, laugh often, and find the most amazing things in the smallest things in life. It seems like people that I need to connect with appear to me when the time is just right for them to appear and opportunities come at the perfect times. Life is moving along nicely.

As a matter of fact, one of the intentions I have set for myself at the start of 2010 was to do more traveling. So I’m actually planning a trip in the near future to Costa Rica where I will document my stay there via this blog, and also video.

I have found that applying the tools found in the book/movie The Secret has really changed my life in a positive way.

Is That Real?

When I first introduced this “secret” a several years back to some of my friends, I was met with some enthusiasm, but a lot of skepticism as well. Applying the tools such as creative visualization, thinking positive, and making vision boards just seems “to good to be true.” The mere thought of simply thinking about something you desire and making intentions for it to arrive and sitting back watching it physically come in tangible form, sounds like something good on the surface, but not something that is “realistic.”

Logic Vs. Intuition

When I use my logical left brain to truly make an effort to analyze the law of attraction, or the power of intention, I admit it I too find it very hard to believe. How can I just think of something that I want, and all of a sudden it will manifest into reality? Don’t I have to work really hard and face many challenges to get that thing I wanted? The challenges may come up at times, but after I’d say about 4 years of actively practicing how to work with the universe in a natural way, versus against it, I have found my own little space of creating positive outcomes for myself by going with the flow.

Once again, the concept as I understand as the Law of Attraction is something I probably am best just living out instead of trying hard to describe in words. After all, it isn’t something very logical, and if I step into the logic of it, I may just be doing myself and my readers a disservice because both logic and how law of attraction work don’t really go hand in hand.

Example 1

It’s very similar to trying to logically explain how intuition or how synchronistic events work. For example, have you ever been thinking about someone and all of a sudden that person give you a call on the phone, and you are surprised and with excitement tell that person “That’s a coincidence! I was just thinking about you!”

Can you logically explain how that process works? If you can, please leave me a comment below I’d love to read your feedback. But, for the majority of people trying to logically translate the reason that “coincidence” happened would prove to be very difficult right?

The same is true for applying the principles that the law of attraction can help you manifest in your life the things you want, versus the things you don’t want.

Example 2

Let me give you another example, have you ever jumped in the air in this (physical realm) and just stayed up in the air and began to float? Just decided to stay up there for a few minutes, and hang out?

No. The reason you can’t stay up in the air for a few minutes or however long you like is because, there is this law in the universe called gravity that exists. This law of gravity is always there. You throw a ball in the air, eventually it comes back to ground level. Any object that consist of matter will come back down to the ground level.

How many of you actually go into the books, and research logically why this happens? I am sure that if you really tried your very best, you can quantify this law in numbers, words, and the like.

So why can’t I logically describe the law of attraction? Which says that like energy attracts like energy, or what you think about your attract in into your life.

The reason I can’t logically describe it is because that’s not my life path or job here on earth. It’s like when I jump in the air, (I jump very high by the way) I know that I will come back down and land on my feet. It is something I just accept as the reality. I don’t feel the need to go to the books, and find the numbers, theories, or exact logic to define and explain to everyone I know why this happen, it just happens.

The difficult Part About it: Teaching It To Others. The difficult part for me at this stage in my manifestation, is teaching why and how the law of attraction works.

It’s not difficult for me to apply these principles with success, because I have trained my mind and my perceptions to just accept it as real. Therefore what I experience in life at this stage in my life is really amazing and spectacular. The more I apply the law of attraction principles, the more I learn about myself and to be honest the more better results I receive. It’s like a little game I test myself with. However, in my case, this is the game of life. So it’s a serious matter, but at the same time very fun and exciting. Life is an adventure anyway, so I decide to experience it that way.

Furthermore, the second difficult part about explaining I also think is because, once you start applying things like creative visualization, affirmations, you begin to see it more of a way of life, versus a “one time thing.” I have found that it allows you take more responsibility for your life, because in essence it is you creating your life.

Law of Attraction as a Way of Life

Seeing the law of attraction is a “one time thing” I think is where a lot of people get hung up on. They start to think that this whole idea is some “hocus pocus” stuff that they will try once and if what they intended for doesn’t come immediately, than according to them it most not work and they begin to slip back into their normal comfortable life where things made more “logical sense.” It’s interesting if you look at very successful people today, they are people who are persistent, and persevere through rejection or failure. How is this idea any different? It really is about alignment. You have to be in alignment with what your life’s purpose is. As you begin to come in alignment with your life’s purpose you will see that the law of attraction is something that is very natural and real in your life.

I have found that people that are out of alignment with their life’s purpose, or have no intention on searching for their life’s purpose, are also those same people that find the need to logically find the reasons why the Law of attraction doesn’t work. Unless of course, their life’s purpose is to be critical, but you get my point.

Have you been applying the Law of Attraction/ The Power of Intention in your life?

Kevin Jacinto is a 26 year old blogger sharing his inspirational thoughts at Braker’s World.

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I never understand anything which related to word LAW ... lollzz

This one is showing that you are quite happy ...

I live a very blessed life. I have abundance, I write about topics I’m passionate about, laugh often, and find the most amazing things in the smallest things in life.

These are exceedingly simple words, but ones that really mean a lot and sums up exactly where the author is at in his life. Who could ask for better? Amen to that, brother!These a

Law of Attraction is definitely real. I've tested it many times in my life and have researched it a lot.

As you say, it isn't "hocus pocus" and no you're not going to materialize a Ferrari out of thin air just by thinking about it, but when you really understand LoA some of the things that you can attract do come about in a rather magical way.

Would love to read this post in peace ... may be at 2:00 AM :)

Was it Henry Ford who said "If you think you can, then you can and if you think you can't then you can't"?

Yeah I believe the quote was.

"If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right."

-Henry Ford

The simple lesson here:

Have a goal. Visual the goal. Live the goal with all your heart and mind.

When I consider the Law of Attraction, I relate it to Karma, or the more "American" saying "What comes around goes around."

If you realize you're creating your own life by acting in a positive way, then that positivity will attract positive people and positivity in your life and business.

The Law of Attraction works in the reverse of the laws of physic which state opposites attract.

I think it's this way because it's based on intrinsic "feelings" of positive visualization. In other words, you see it in your mind's eye, and you act on that. That in turn has an effect in the real world and on the people you come into contact with. Back to basic physics "cause and effect".

New Agers call it "being in tune with the universe", Martial Artists call it "Chi". Native Amaerican's call it "Mother Nature". It's about balance and harmony. It's about life itself, and energy. It's about positive energy attracting positivity into your life.

More simply. It's all about attitude!

Just my opinion...

Things that resonate at the same vibrational frequency will be drawn towards each other. Positivity draws positivity, and pondering on the dark and negative will make it take notice of you.

I was visualizing and open to a negative review about the Secret but all that materialized was this positive post.

I'm sorry, but this whole topic is just a little too hokey for me to deal with. People actually believe this?!?

A simple technique to get started is to plant a question in your mind and then go about your daily business until the answer pops up in your mind sometime later i.e. you put your subconscious mind to work on it.

Good simple techinque. It really is about keeping it very simple, and from ones on personal experience seeing what works well for them. In my experience, what I choose to focus on expands.

i'm all for thinking positive and the laws of attraction but i have to say some people not saying the guest poster but some people have turned this 'secret' thing into a cult following.

some people are just a little too hard core about it for me but to each his own i guess

Thinking positive and working towards your goal makes the law of attraction unbreakable.

Yes. Positive thinking and inspired action towards ones goals makes the law of attraction unbreakable, and a powerful force to achieve ones aims in life.

Haha John do you know all the secret laws of attraction???

Haha, there is always somebody that thinks a guest post is written by John.

True my mistake, so many guest posts hard to distinguish what is John and what is guest.

I wrote this post as a guest post for John Chow, yes I have been studying and applying the secret laws of attraction for 5 years now with success. =)

I agree with what another commenter said when they said that willing something to happen won’t make it happen,

I used to think that this was just so much bull%&#t,but after trying it out it works. Maybe concentrating on your goal in a positive manner will put you in the mindset to take positive action.Maybe it influences the powers that be.Maybe a little of both. It's something to think about and consider in any case.

I glad to see that your views have changed based on the results you've experienced.

That shows an open mind and a mind like that can learn and change.

You are right, what it really is at the end of the day is just having that right mindset. Yes, work towards your goals, but don't discredit the thought energy that is producing the success on a more energy based level as well.

Interesting point! I would say I agree to 85% of it...

Why only 85%?
what happened to the other 15%?

Good point not exactly sure.

The law of attraction can also be looked as a pure belief in what you are doing, so with the positive thoughts, it allows you to take inspired action in the direction of your desires. A lot of it is trusting your place in the universe and going with the flow.

Very interesting post. I agree with what another commenter said when they said that willing something to happen won't make it happen, you need to work your socks off to make it happen.

Sometimes you don't need to work your socks off. You just need to work smart.

When you have the experience of someone ringing you when you are thinking of them it is only coincidence. maybe i don´t have much of an existential mind.

It can be only coincidence sometimes but perhaps not in every case. Not everything in life is a coincidence though. We do have a power to choose in most cases.

Excellent article, Kevin, I agree you need to know what you want in order to be able to get it, SY

Yes. Having the intentons in place, that come from your values in life, allows the manifestation to begin to happen for you in flow with the universe.

To make the law of attraction really work, it is important to know the market that you want to target

Nice point. Glad you found some value in this post though.

Sounds great. Law of Attraction.
Great post kevin. Good Job.
Thanks for sharing.

~Dev

My pleasure Dev. Have an aweseome weekend ahead.

Yeah obviously the law of attraction does work !

Yes. Indeed in my experience it has. Hope you have a wonderful weekend ahead!

It has worked most of the time for me too with some glitches once in a while which is called adversity.

That may be part of the equation.

Looking forward to the weekend. Everybody have a good one.

How do you think so?

It's something where the relationship exists because of the effort put into the blog, without making it look like work. People aren't as conversational if they think you've tirelessly put something together, but it has to be cohesive and relateable.

Whether or not you believe in the "Law of Attraction" you can certainly believe that positive thinking and behavior will yield positive results.

Yes. We become what we think about.

What you really become is obsessed.

Becoming obsessed can be a hindrance because it kind of limits the mind and prevents one from seeing clearly.