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The Number One Reason for My Internet Success

written by John Chow on January 27, 2008

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One of My Most Asked Question

Adam Doolittle recently sent me an email claiming that I control 18.08% of the publishing market for earning money online. How this was calculated, I am not sure. Adam asked me what I attribute most of my success to. This is a question that I get asked a lot but surprisingly, I have never written a blog post about it because I’m not sure how many people will actually understand the answer. The number one reason for my Internet success is…

My wife.

Wasn’t the answer you were expecting, was it? Well it’s true and I’m going to tell you why. You can be the most knowledgeable person in the world about blogging and Internet marketing but if you don’t have the support of your wife or significant other, it’s really really hard to be a success at anything.

Behind Every Successful Man is a Woman

I was doing OK before I met Sarah. However, I didn’t hit big time until she came into my life. No, she wasn’t some Internet guru or superstar blogger. She knew nothing about that stuff. What she did offer was a positive family environment and unwaivering support for whatever it was that I wanted to do. She was my number one cheerleader and inspired me to levels I never dreamed possible. You will be amazed at the things you can do when you have a truly supportive wife or girlfriend backing you.

Get Your Relationships In Order

Blogging is about relationships. If you have a negative relationship with your readers, the blog is not going to succeed. However, if you have a negative relationship with your significant other, your blog’s success is the last of your worries. If you truly want to be successful, have a successful relationship with your wife/girlfriend first. The rest will fall into place.

For those who are single, and there are a lot of you, take heart. You have a better chance at building a successful blog than most couples because you don’t have to deal with any of the negative crap that seems to fall onto many relationships. However, the chance of you beating a couple who are in sync with each other is very slim. But don’t worry. Successful people don’t remain single for long.

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Oh so true. I'm also lucky to have my fiancee support me 100% on my work with the World War II history website http://ww2db.com . No venture can be successful without a significant other as support!

untrue. much can be done without others. it is the negative you do not need. if you are vulnerable because of others you are setting yourself up.

Maybe I should rephrase.

Ventures can be successful without the support of a significant other, but without someone to share the success, the successful venture just isn't as enjoyable.

i am only playing :evil: advocate. But there will always be people there to celebrate success. Do you mean to share the journey? Anyhow I like the site and thumbed it... Do you have a list of all the events on a timeline where you can mouse over to get more detail?

The journey, the success... both, you know? I'm lucky to have my fiancee with me as I build up the site, and if it ever become as profitable as John Chow's, I want to share that success with her ^_^

Hey thanks for bookmarking my site. What kind of time line do you have in mind? If you'd like, feel free to send me a message through the site and we can talk... you're the first ww2 enthusiast I have met on this site yet!

I love my Husband. I'm not going to leave him or divorce him cause he's not perfect. I was just saying that he is not 100% always supportive but it doesn't keep me back from writing and wanting to be successful. I just do my best anyways. There are days he is supportive and wants to help me with my blog and there are days he is not sure of my success. When I start showing the money it will be more believable and I'm sure he will be more supportive. I'm not perfect too. When I married him he was not perfect. He was himself and that's why I married him. I love him for him. Ok enough of my rambling. My point is he does support me here and there and I love him even when he doesn't support my dreams. I just know when I start to become successful he will be really happy with what I'm doing! :razz:

~Katie

That is how I am with my friends. Until they prove success I do not support them and hardly talk to them. They have to reach a certain level to gain respect. Generally speaking the ladies I run love me whenever, but they really like it when I don't hit them. Hopefully the sarcasm tags show up, fingers crossed. Anyhow, I am just f'n with ya.

Great Article :) So glad your wife is supportive for you and cheers you on. Everyone needs that. Not all people are supportive of others. My husband is not always supportive. But here and there he is. I just keep doing my best anyways and when he is supportive it's really nice and makes me feel good! :razz:

~Katie

Don't worry Katie, with divorce rates rising, just hide the loot you might be making and find a supportive guy :evil: i just posted a follow up to this type of post that (shoe and john did).

I have to agree with you if your personal life is not settled and happy. Anything else that you do in life is greatly affected by that situation. I went through losing a girlfriend and not being happy for a long period of time and basically destroyed my work. I've since met someone new who supports what i'm doing and working for and my success is starting to come back and i'm moving forward successfully again.

That's a cool post. I'm glad that your wife is a big motivation for you. I'm Sure every successful blogger will have one of the reason for the success as their partner.

Hey John,
You are right on the money when it comes to having a good woman behind ya. We are going on year 17 and it is better than ever now. My wife is totally behind me and my blog. I love it when successful people say thing like you did. Keep it up. :smile:

I must admit that my husbands support helps me too with my blogging quest. He helps to boost my self-confidence and is always grateful for all extra income I am bringing into the household even if it is just a few dollars.

Sounds like codswallop to me. :???:

You are right. Having a happy, stable and quiet relationship means a lot. You have time to think about how to make money online to provide for your wife. And the kids to come.

Moreover, if she understands you, you are in the seventh heaven. And write, write, write, write...

shox! just broke with up with my GF today.. she was the sole reason why i blogged tsk tsk tsk.. now i need to look for a new inspiration (gf).. :twisted:

You are correct Mr. Chow. This has to be the best piece of advice I have seen you put up. I have so much love, admiration and respect for my wife. She supports me in everything I do in life and I have been able to achieve so many things that I would have otherwise thought possible. I owe her so so so much.

John, I couldn't agree more. I couldn't even imagine life without my wife and children, family is simply something which deserves the top spot on everyone's priority list.

Best wishes,

Alan Johnson

"Behind Every Successful Man is a Woman" and behind that Woman His Wife!! :lol:

Behind Every Successful Man is a Woman. Yes it is correct and just like behind every successful woman there is a man also. Because both of them are coincidence.

"The number one reason for my Internet success is…
My wife."

John,
I think this is so sweet! A lot of times the supportive wife in the background is overlooked. Most supportive spouses are there for you on your good days and bad days... cheering you on and lifting you up when you need it.
~Debby

I totally agree here, John. Without my wife's unwaivering support, I wouldn't be doing what I love and making a good living from it.

John Chow, you are a smart man to realize that having a good woman helps in life;) And giving her kudos online...very smart!
www.wannasmile.com

Hmm, I signed up for Adam's rss feed, but never got a confirmation email from Feedburner. I guess I'll sign up again.

Sorry, wrong post.

Hey John,
That's probably what we call our driving force or conquering force. I have learn from this man call Jack Zufelt (I suggest anyone of you to go read about him) that we all have a conquering force from within. Something that will proper you to succeed in a certain area no matter what it takes. And for you John it's obvious your wife is your reason for you to conquer all your challenges. I happy to see this post and of cause I have a wonderful girlfriend that's behind me. :smile:
Thanks for sharing.
Terry

ha, i know many wives and girlfriends that will be very happy about this post :)

My wife doesn't speak a word of English, but is fully supportive in what I do. She brings me tea and crackers to get through the day and doesn't complain when I stay up till 4 in the morning banging on the keyboard. She understands that me banging on the keyboard causes money to appear out the ATM machine and respects and supports my work. Good to hear you are in a similar boat

Dear John,
Very very well spoken. When I first came across your blog many months back, you often give me the impression that you only blog some money making techniques. However your post about the wife, is something really open my eyes. You are showing the other side of you. Believe it or not, those words from you often remind readers to stop and look back. Sincere from my heart, I would like to say thank you.

Hi John,
love this post, and not what I expected when I read the title, but it really touched me. I do believe a base of support can influence big time!

Hi John,
I don't know why it seems, but it seems that you had a recent fight with you wife.. is that blog post for her?:D

you've got it right, john! :smile:

Nice post. I guess it is also safe to say that every successful blog by a wife is a husband :)

what's success without people to share it with?

Its as true as it gets, the closest one to you matters most, everything after that is cake

Is John not got anything more to blog about?
Just wondering if his pen is running dry or has he lost the magic wand?

Ofcourse we all know that for the married ' the woman/man is behind their success!!!

Common John, what more have you got???

Aaawwww that was so cute :grin: , but certainly is very truth, everybody needs someone holding you back.

I agree with you John. This is so true. A good relationship compliments success. :smile:

John...great inspirational post! I love this stuff! I'm in the same situation as you. Ever since I got married, bought a house ($335K) and had a kid (Rocco René) I have become so focused and determined to become the number 1 blogger in the world. The Wayne Gretzky of Blogging. Unforunately, I am about 1 or 2 years away from my goal.....but with my family behind me every step of the way...watch out...Darrin, Shoemoney and John Chow...or is it John Cow?? Thanks again for this AWESOME POST!

John Chow, any relationship to Olivia Chow MP from Toronto?

john chow is he sweetes internet marketer out there I bet his wife is crying tears of joy

Yeah, I'd say that I have to agree with this post about 1000%. My fiance supporting me is probably the number one reason I have been able to keep my head up when the times were rough. Thank God for making women.

This might be my first comment here, but I 100% agree with you John. I'd have nothing without the support of my wife, she rocks! She's my wise counsel, my motivation, and my biggest fan.

Great tip you got there, I can def take use of it.

GREAT POST! It is definitely important to remember what are the most important things in life, and make sure they are not accidentally set aside for something less important.

Excellent post, John!!

"You will be amazed at the things you can do when you have a truly supportive wife or girlfriend backing you."

I can't agree with that statement any more, my friend! I must say, however, that living in Los Angeles makes is really difficult to find a really loving and supporting gal who is actually decent looking :razz:

Seriously, girls in So. Cal. are just too crazy! Perhaps I should move to Canada :wink:

Interesting post, great read of the day I might say. Keep up the good work!

-Mike

"Successful people don’t remain single for long."

That's so true, but those that aren't married have to watch out for gold diggers. Heck, I suppose if you're married you have to watch out for them too.

That's great that you honor your wife for being the biggest part of your success. My wife is also very supportive of my blogging and what I do online. I couldn't do it without her:
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